A Place for Remembering and Changing

It is about time you found us. We have been waiting for you! Please make yourself at home as we conjure up some memories for you about the “good ole days.” Did you have an Aunt, Uncle, Grandma, or Grandpa who loved to share his or her memories? Weren’t those times enjoyable as the past was connected to the present? Have you ever gotten lost in a story, a movie, or even a song that took you back to a specific time, place, or person? If so, you have found the right place for remembering.

However, if memories are all that you are looking for, this is NOT the right place for you. What you will find here are real life anecdotes designed to show you that Blacks and Whites are quite similar but unique. You will be challenged to put aside ignorance which causes preconceptions and stereotypes. Don’t worry. You will not be scolded or preached at. In a subtle fashion, you will discover and remember what you already know in your heart. This site will allow you to put your life on pause and then cause you to be refreshed by your reflections on the “good ole days.” Perhaps this site will even help you improve your perception of racial issues in America. Please enjoy.

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The story revolves around two people who lived during the same time, roughly 1950 through the present. The setting is the Detroit Metropolitan Area. Now available on Amazon!

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Uncle Toms and Wiggers

Who was Uncle Tom? In black author Harriet Beecher Stowe’s 1852 novel Uncle Tom’s Cabin, he was depicted as a martyr and not a sell out to his race. His devotion to his fellow slaves was so unshakable that he suffered immensely and sacrificed a chance at freedom to...

Dee-troit Basketball!

UPDATE: The Detroit Pistons are moving back to downtown Detroit in 2017 but read all about my memories of them in the 60's and 70's. --- The crowd at the Palace of Auburn Hills really gets into it when the announcer starts chanting “Dee-troit Basketball! Dee-troit...

Black Lives Matter

"He ain’t nothin' but a ham!” To this day after some fifty-five years, I can still hear Albert Mashall’s father’s booming voice as he stood outside the fence at the St. Catherine softball diamond. Albert was a black teammate of mine. His father never missed a game...

Playgrounds and Parks of our Childhood

When a realtor starts to describe a neighborhood, he/she will begin with the three most important words: location, location, location. As part of the discussion about location invariably will be the pointing out of schools, shopping, and, of course, playgrounds and...

The Erroneous Legacy of an Unendowed Generation

Special Guest Post by TJ Hemphill Whenever I think of my first days at Wayne State University, I think of a young black boy sitting in the midst of a sea of white faces with straight hair and pink blemishes. The English class was now in full session and so was the...

Mental Illness is Color Blind

Mental illness affects the entire human race. It is like cancer that attacks all of us. The huge difference between the two diseases is that cancer usually will be detected, then treated aggressively, and hopefully conquered. We all know of individuals who have died...

The Power of Words

“A Rose by Any Other Name Would Smell as Sweet” William Shakespeare, Romeo and Juliet Romeo, a Montague, is concerned that Juliet is from the house of Capulet. In fact, this entire tragedy has as its focal point the hatred between two families which makes the...

The Integrated Sandbox

Lo-Lo’s Chicken and Waffles is a chain of homemade Southern soul food restaurants. In our book Black and White Like You and Me, we have a section about stereotypes including types of food blacks enjoy. Clearly then, the stereotype is that Lo-Lo’s would only be...