A Place for Remembering and Changing

It is about time you found us. We have been waiting for you! Please make yourself at home as we conjure up some memories for you about the “good ole days.” Did you have an Aunt, Uncle, Grandma, or Grandpa who loved to share his or her memories? Weren’t those times enjoyable as the past was connected to the present? Have you ever gotten lost in a story, a movie, or even a song that took you back to a specific time, place, or person? If so, you have found the right place for remembering.

However, if memories are all that you are looking for, this is NOT the right place for you. What you will find here are real life anecdotes designed to show you that Blacks and Whites are quite similar but unique. You will be challenged to put aside ignorance which causes preconceptions and stereotypes. Don’t worry. You will not be scolded or preached at. In a subtle fashion, you will discover and remember what you already know in your heart. This site will allow you to put your life on pause and then cause you to be refreshed by your reflections on the “good ole days.” Perhaps this site will even help you improve your perception of racial issues in America. Please enjoy.

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The story revolves around two people who lived during the same time, roughly 1950 through the present. The setting is the Detroit Metropolitan Area. Now available on Amazon!

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Do you know someone who grew up in Detroit in the 1950’s and 1960’s? Or maybe that someone is you! Let’s spread the word about this site and the book so we can reminisce together.

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Each blog article has open comments, why not jump in and tell us if you had a similar experience. Or maybe you’ve got a story of your own to share – we’ll be publishing guest posts soon! Get in touch.

Blackie and Brownie

I recall early in high school, probably 9th grade in 1963, when my English teacher, who was certainly sympathetic to the social issues of the time, made us aware of the causes of skin color and pigmentation. Why, even within the races, is one person’s skin lighter or...

Nicknames

Nickname. I don’t get it. Why not a TOMNAME or a JENNYNAME? Why does Nicholas get all the fame? Who is he, some sort of bigshot? When you think about it, how could we ever get along without nicknames? Many nicknames are cool like Rob instead of Bob for Robert. Some...

The Games People Play

Joe South had a smash hit in 1969 called “The Games People Play” which was a dark commentary on life indicating the poor treatment of each other. Fortunately, this blog will be far from those depressing thoughts with the only similarity being its title. The games...

SHOCK AND AWE

The invasion of Iraq was titled “Shock and Awe” in relation to the devastation that followed. With tongue in cheek, I propose that was nothing compared to the shock and awe that we baby boomers have endured during the extreme changes in social etiquette, if not...

Coach

Hayden Fox was the head football coach of the Minnesota State Screaming Eagles. In this 1990’s fictitious series, Coach had not only to deal with a football program that had seen its better years, but also with idiosyncratic assistant coaches, and a girlfriend/wife...

Good Morning, Sunshine

“Rise and Shine!” “Perhaps I will rise, but I may not shine.” From the ‘60s group Strawberry Alarm Clock came the tune “Good Morning, Starshine” which eventually became more famous for its use in the smash Broadway hit Hair. Please notice the change of “star” for...

Nobody Gets Too Much Heaven No More

Pardon the double negative, but that’s how the Bee Gees wrote it and sang it. “It’s much harder to come by, I’m waiting in line.” How do you perceive those two lines? Puzzling, aren’t they? Certainly, you could get upset thinking of loss and unrequited love. You could...

You’re So Hot

Sometimes I wonder how people trying to learn English can understand, much less use, different words and expressions. I remember one of my son’s girlfriends who was Danish and could speak and understand four languages. In a class at Michigan State University, she...